Wallahi, I was weak, shy, broke, undisciplined, and VERY depressed... until I finally changed my life, alḥamdulillāh.
Now I'm showing Muslim men exactly how to do the same, step by step, without the red-pill nonsense, without losing your dīn, and without pretending to be someone you're not.
Even if you feel lost, failed and don't know where to start.
This isn't red-pill. It's not "therapy" talk.
And it's not those soft Islamic reminders that tell you to "just have sabr, akhi."
It's something nobody in our community speaks about, even though EVERY brother feels it.
Just give me a minute of your time.
I'm not here to sell you a dream. And I'm not here to make you feel guilty or weak. I'm here to talk about the part of your life you don't show anyone:
- 📌 The discipline you keep losing
- 📌 The confidence that faded over the years
- 📌 The pressure you hide behind a straight face
- 📌 The man you know you should've become by now
Most of us go through this in silence. Very few ever fix it.
Remember That Moment?
When you're scrolling Instagram, hours pass, and you don't even realise it. Or when you're sitting with people and suddenly feel like you don't belong — your mind goes blank, your throat tightens, your voice barely comes out. Or those nights lying in bed, exhausted, thinking to yourself:
- Yā Rabb… I should be further in life than this.
So what did you do?
You searched. You watched every self-improvement video you could find. Tried to copy the routines, the gym streaks, the dopamine detoxes. Hoped this time it would actually stick.
Maybe you made a checklist. Promised yourself tomorrow would be different. Told yourself, I'm finally serious now. Only to fall back into the same habits a few days later.
Maybe you isolated yourself for a bit. Maybe you acted like everything was fine. Maybe you pretended you didn't care anymore.
And deep down, the frustration kept growing. That heaviness. That hidden shame. That feeling of: Why am I not the man I'm supposed to be by now?
I know that feeling. Because wallahi, I was there too.
And by the mercy of Allah, I finally found something that made sense.
Not just for my confidence. Not just for my discipline. But for my identity, my dignity, and my entire life as a man.
My Crazy Journey😢
Let's start by saying Bismillah.
And look, I don't usually tell this story, but here goes.
Back when I was about 18, my life felt like it was stuck.
I had social anxiety so bad that even sitting with cousins made my throat tighten and my mind go blank.
I avoided eye contact, avoided attention, avoided anything that made me feel like a man was supposed to "hold himself together."
And home wasn't peaceful either. A lot of shouting. Parents always arguing (way too normal in our culture).
A lot of things behind closed doors that I thought were normal… until I realised later they weren't.
And to top it all off, I was skint...
At the time, I was working at my uncle's restaurant in East London, and honestly, I hated every second of it. (Sorry uncle… still love you.)
And the worst part?
I kept telling myself, "Inshā'Allāh next year will be my year"… but nothing changed.
I tried becoming "better." Made checklists. Downloaded habit apps.
Copied whatever Instagram improvement guys were preaching. Even tried to copy MR TATE..
Each attempt lasted two days before collapsing.
Then came the HARAM relationship
one I shouldn’t have been in. She was russian, and I genuinely thought she was the one (Astagfurullah).
A year of haram, a year of chaos, a year that ended with me completely broken.
And then… both my parents passed away. (May Allah have mercy on their souls.)
That was the moment I cracked.
Life didn’t just feel hard, it felt real.
I realised nobody was coming to save me or my two little brothers.
Fast forward about a year and a half..
Life looked the same from the outside.
Same job. Same routine. Same version of me walking through each day half-asleep.
My masjid, held a brothers’ circle every two weeks.
I always attended, mostly out of routine and because the brothers would ask me to. if I’m honest, I never really listened.
Phones out. Minds elsewhere. You know how it goes.
But one week, the topic was procrastination.
Not the usual reminders. Not marriage lectures.Not aqīdah debates.
It was the one silent disease every Muslim man suffers from:
“Later.”
One by one, brothers started sharing how their entire lives were being delayed by this habit. And for the first time … I listened. I saw myself in every one of them.
Then a brother said a line that cut straight through me:
- “Shayṭān doesn’t need you to sin. He just needs you to delay becoming the man Allah expects you to be.”
Wallahi, in that moment I felt exposed.
Because that was literally my life:
- “I’ll fix my routine later.”
- “I’ll train next month.”
- “I’ll stop these habits after Ramadan.”
Always later.
That night I asked myself one question: “If I don’t change now… then when?”
So I started small. Really small:
- Praying properly.
- Fixing my sleep.
- Training consistently.
- Cutting haram slowly.
- Building a business. Keeping tiny promises to myself.
And slowly, and I mean, very slowly everything changed.
- I built a 7-figure business and had 14 employees working under me.
- Started running marathons.
- Married a woman better than anything I deserved.
- Became the father of three beautiful daughters (Alhamdullilah, my biggest achievement).
My life didn’t become “perfect.”
It became stable. Masculine. Disciplined.
And that’s when I realised:
Everything I built came from a system I created by accident —
a system born from trying to stop procrastinating the man I was meant to be.
The moment I understood that? I made a promise to myself:
I was never going back to who I used to be.
REAL STUDENT RESULTS
THE ALPHAMUSLIMMAN MASTERCLASS
The Foundation
You can't build a strong man on a weak inner world.
- Expose why Western society feminises Muslim men
- Get the real definition of an Alpha Muslim Man
- Build masculine frame
- Learn how to master your nafs
- Understand the “dangerous but controlled” warrior archetype
The Mind of a Leader
Your mind is either your weapon or your cage.
- Combine Stoicism + sabr into a practical model for mental toughness
- Replace motivation with systems and structure that force discipline
- Learn masculine emotional intelligence
- Build real confidence and charisma
The Body of a Warrior
A weak body creates a weak mind. We fix that.
- How to build a warrior physique
- A simple framework for gym discipline, recovery and long-term health
- Sleep, breath and stress methods
- A full porn destruction and lust-control blueprint
Winning in the West
If you can't provide, you can't lead.
- Learn how halal wealth works in a Western system
- Build the provider mindset
- Create masculine financial systems
- Map out skills, career moves and a recession-proof path
- Craft your masculine mission statement
Social Masculinity
Respect is not requested. It's earned.
- Learn how to speak like a man
- Master the masculine pause
- Set firm, respectful boundaries with friends and family
- Handle disrespect and conflict without losing control
- Install a behaviour code for school, work and street
- Build digital masculinit
Women, Marriage & Household Leadership
A man is measured by how he leads those under his care.
- Understand women through a masculine lens
- Learn how to choose the right woman in the modern West,
- Maintain polarity
- Rebuild attraction when things have gone cold
- Lead your household without being harsh or weak
- Build brotherhood and tribe
Faith, Recovery & Spiritual Power
Life will hit you. A man must know how to get back up.
- See masculinity in Qur’ān & Sunnah
- Build private spirituality
- Learn how to process heartbreak, loss and betrayal like a man
- Use a 30-day “Return Stronger” protocol
- Become a man of izzah